Everyone is unique and everybody’s life is unique. You are not in competition with anyone.
It’s important to recognize that every individual has his/her own unique journey, circumstances, and talents. Comparison often involves making assumptions about others’ lives based on limited information or surface-level observations, which may not provide an accurate or complete picture. Each person has his/her own strengths, weaknesses, and paths to success, and trying to fit into someone else’s mould can hinder our own personal growth and fulfilment.
Observing others, or considering how everyone else is doing and comparing that to your own situation can have both positive and negative effects. On the positive side, healthy competition can provide motivation, inspiration, and a sense of direction. It can push us to strive for personal growth and achieve our goals. Comparing ourselves to others can also serve as a reality check, helping us gain perspective on our strengths and weaknesses.
However, constantly living in comparison can also have negative effects on our well-being and self-esteem. It can lead to feelings of inadequacy, jealousy, and a perpetual sense of dissatisfaction. When we constantly measure our worth based on how we stand compared to others, we may lose sight of our unique qualities and experiences, undermining our self-confidence and happiness. The case where we compare and think or feel that we are better than everyone else, can lead to vanity and empty pride, belittling others and becoming secluded from reality.
Instead of focusing solely on comparison, it can be more beneficial to shift our attention inward and reflect on our own progress, goals, and values. Embracing a growth mindset, where we strive for self-improvement and focus on our own development, can lead to a more fulfilling and meaningful life. Celebrating our own accomplishments, nurturing self-compassion, and finding joy in our own unique journey can help us break free from the cycle of comparison and live more authentically.
“Comparism is the thief of joy”
— President Theodore Roosevelt
We can strive to be the best version of ourselves without feeling the need to constantly compare ourselves to others.


Most people do not know the power of the spoken word. Words are vibrations spoken out as a result of our thoughts. Words therefore are spoken thoughts. Thoughts are powerful , but spoken words are more powerful since words are thoughts expressed. Whatever we express manifests more quickly in the universe through the 




There is certainly power in the spoken words. We live in a miraculous world and we are living miracles. When you consider that words have effect on water and that the human body contains 50%-70% water, we may begin to imagine what everything we say to ourselves and to others are doing to our bodies – our physical and psychological wellbeing and our outlook in life. We should pay attention to what we say to ourselves and others. Words of affirmation are very important. Say positive things about yourself and to yourself. Say positive encouraging thing to your children. Say good things to, and about others and mean these things when you say them. 

At this period, despite all natural and man-made turbulences and political uncertainties, allow yourself to remember and believe that ‘all things work together for good’. As William Shakespeare put it,
Worrying is a function of the imagination. Without imagination, there would be no worry! If worry does not solve a problem or has the potential of solving a problem, then, learn to let go of it.Worrying can become habitual and chronic and in that case may negatively affect your mood and your health.
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express yourself in words, and these words inspire others. Even a smile is something if you give it away. Each of us has a personal calling or purpose that is unique. Develop what you love doing and then find a way to offer it to others in form of service. 